Men's Health: Why Men Don't Visit the Doctor

It’s time to highlight the importance of open conversations in men’s health and discuss some health topics that are often overlooked. Historically, men have faced challenges discussing health concerns with loved ones and medical professionals. In fact, studies show that men are about 50% more likely than women to go over two years without seeing a primary care physician. Regular checkups enable early detection of health issues like heart disease, cancer, and diabetes, improving treatment outcomes and increasing lifespan.

Why Men Don’t Seek Help

Unfortunately, many men tend to put off seeking medical help during the early stages of a health issue, often leading to more serious complications later on. This reluctance can stem from various factors, including:

• DIY Mentality: Many men hesitate to seek help, opting to try and ‘fix’ the issue themselves, often relying on online research. This has been exacerbated in recent years with the growing number of digital influencers promoting a ‘stoic outlook’.
• Embarrassment: Health concerns, particularly those related to sexual or intimate health, can lead to feelings of embarrassment and reluctance to reach out for help.
• Fear of the Unknown: The thought of receiving a serious diagnosis can be daunting, causing some to delay visiting a doctor.
• Aversion to Exams: Unfortunately, the expectation of an uncomfortable examination can deter men from seeking care. However, it's important to note that most conditions can now be screened with simple blood tests.

Finding the Right Advice

While we have more health information available than ever online, it’s crucial to consult accredited professionals for reliable advice. Always discuss any concerns with your primary care doctor, and be open and honest about what you’re experiencing. Your doctor will listen and may recommend seeing a specialist based on your specific needs. Remember, it’s okay to seek a second opinion if it helps you feel more confident in your health decisions.

Tips for Staying Healthy

• Schedule Check-ups: Maintain regular appointments with your primary care doctor – don’t wait until something feels off.
• Listen to Your Body: Be mindful of your body and health; if something feels wrong, book an appointment to have it checked out.
• Eat Right: Maintain a balanced, healthy diet.
• Stay Active: Exercise regularly and establish a consistent sleep schedule.
• Know Your Screenings: Discuss necessary screenings with your primary care doctor. They can advise you on what you need. For example, if you are 40 or older, you should consider screenings for prostate cancer, which involve a simple PSA blood test.

It’s time to prioritize your physical and mental health, be proactive and break the stigma that surrounds men’s health - make those appointments! Don’t let embarrassment or fear stand in the way of your well-being. You owe it to yourself and your loved ones to stay healthy and informed.

Justin Dubin, MD, is a fellowship-trained urologist and andrologist focusing on men’s health at Memorial Healthcare System. Dr Dubin is passionate about caring for men with fertility problems, sexual issues (e.g., erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, etc.), Peyronie’s disease, low testosterone, testicular pain and other problems involving men’s genitalia.

If you would like to schedule an appointment with Dr. Dubin in Memorial's Urology department, call 305 682-2580. You can also schedule an appointment with Memorial Primary Care as a new or existing patient or call 954-276-5552.